- What question do we often ask ourselves? Could it be "Why Me?" Does that one sound familiar? In my personal OPINION, when we ask ourselves that question, it gives the feeling that we're the only ones going through that "situation". You may feel like it's you against the world, or your alone and you have no one there for you but the truth is you're not alone. You're not the only one whose been through what you're going through. Now let me clear this up; because your probably thinking "Well Kennedi we still feel alone because we don't know whose been through the situations we're going through, we don't know the person. But look at it like this, have you ever sat down with a friend or family member and found someone you realize you have so much in common with? And you guys are like "Oh my, I thought I was the only one?" If not, it will happen! Look at the storm your going through like that. Some people feel the same way that you feel and won't open up because they feel like they are alone just like you. Also, think about this...have you been through a tough time before? Do you see yourself still going through that storm? Don't you think you're going to make it through this storm as well? Now the timing may not be the same, it can get tiring and frustrating but you have to hold on. Your situation does not define you. It will make you stronger, and in the future will help you with growing in happiness. Everyone goes through storms and sometimes, trust me I know, it's like storm after storm after storm. But it will help you with demanding respect and understanding life. I wish you all the best and hope this helps someone. Thank you for viewing.