God doesn't give the same pain and hurt to people. What your going through may not be what your "Friend" is going through. You have to stop comparing yourself to others. Just because you see someone with something that you want doesn't mean your poor, or anything. You don't know what they had to go through to get there or get that. Just like you, they don't know what you been through to get where you are. Your not on the same chapter as nobody but yourself.